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Tips For Dating Beautiful Asian Women – How To Get Asian Girls

Why is it that so many Western guys are keen on Dating Asian women? How come every year, more Canadians, Brits, Germans, Australians, Americans, and guys from other locations are getting married to Asian women?

Well, the physical beauty of Asian women is undeniable. Their silky black hair...petite, firm bodies...and even the poise and grace with which they walk.

I am sure their gorgeous, exotic features are attractive to you. And then there is the sense of "shy innocence" that Asian women possess. It makes us curious to discover more about them, and it's a huge turn-on to think that beneath that shy exterior lies a sexual side that is waiting to be unleashed...

But if you were to admit this personal preference to a Western woman, she'd probably respond with scorn. The Western woman will assume that choice to date Asian women is about wanting to have a "slave" who waits on you hand and foot and cleans your house. The bitter Western woman thinks that men who date Asian women aren't "man" enough to be with a "real lady."

This simply is not true, and you already know this if you've been with beautiful Asian women. The Asian girlfriends I've had have been smart, self-sufficient, opinionated and strong. Yet at the same time, they radiate pure femininity.

Basically, Asian women make a man feel the way he is supposed to!

This is the way you and I were born to feel, and it's what we need in order to feel happy and good about ourselves. Just ask any of your married buddies who have been beaten down and emasculated by their nagging, overbearing wives.

Wanting to date Asian women isn't any weird "fetish," nor does it suggest that you are in any way deficient or unable to handle a relationship with a woman of your own race. On the contrary, I say that you are enlightened! You're willing to think "outside the box" and not follow the same script that your friends do -- the guys who settle for whatever girl they can get, because they're convinced that in order to date stunningly beautiful women (or a hot younger woman) you need to be rich, famous or have movie-star good looks.

Would these men prefer to be with a sexy, gorgeous younger woman who adores them and gives them incredible sex? Of course they'd love that. But most men don't think this is even possible, so they get married to a woman they feel they are "compatible" with. This usually just means that she is as boring and predictable as he is.

What percentage of these guys wind up feeling truly happy with their lives and are sexually fulfilled? My guess is that this number is very small. Most of my married buddies tell me how jealous they are of my lifestyle, which involves a lot of traveling to Asia and dating Asian women.

Look, we're all driven by the same needs and desires that we shared with our ancestors 10,000 years ago. We are hard-wired to be men. We desire women who are soft and feminine, and respond to our masculinity and strength. Asian women cater to this need like no other type of female.

There are many legitimate reasons why Western men are drawn towards Asian women. I'm going to give you my Top Ten right now. (Please note, these qualities certainly do not apply to all Asian women...only the good ones!)

#1 They are physically sexy and appealing.

The silky hair; flawless skin; petite, hard bodies; and exotic Oriental features add up to combination that a lot of men find irresistible.

It's also interesting to note that the Asian face, because of the way it's constructed, reveals less emotion than the faces of Caucasians. This makes Asian women "harder to read" than Caucasian women, who are known to express their feelings constantly (whether you want to hear them or not!).

In a way, this lends a sense of "mystery" to Asian women. This intensifies their allure since we, as men, are turned on by the "thrill of the hunt."

Asian women also have great skin quality, and tend to develop less wrinkles than Caucasian woman as they get older -- which is why Asian women can remain strikingly beautiful well into middle age.

#2 They tend to be quite approachable.

I'm constantly approaching and chatting up women, and I've noticed that even the most beautiful Asian women are easier to approach than Western women. They love to be flirted with, too. When I'm in Asia, I can simply give a girl a friendly smile and say to them in their language: "You're very cute, may I know your name?" I'll almost always get a smile in return, and we'll have a conversation. An American woman, on the other hand, might suspect that you're "hitting on her" and not give you the time of day.

Asian women really do smile more. It is a part of their culture and upbringing. For example, you can go to poor provinces in the Philippines and all of the people, despite their hardships, will greet you with a friendly smile.

Thailand is literally known as "The Land Of Smiles" because people smile all the time. (This can be confusing to foreigners, since the "Thai smile" can actually mean a lot of different things -- I explain this in the "Secrets Of Dating Asian Women" book. But at any rate, it beats being around a bunch of frowning, frumpy Western women!)

It's mind-blowing to stroll through a big shopping mall in a city like Manila, Jakarta or Bangkok...because so many young, beautiful Asian women will smile at you when you make eye contact with them!

Contrast this with the women in America. They will frown most of the time in order to assert that they can't be bothered with meeting anyone new. They will automatically consider you to be a loser, or some type of threat, until you prove otherwise.

It's true that Asian women generally are more "shy" than Western women -- but this is just at first. When you know how to converse with them the right way, their shy exterior will quickly melt away and they will be friendly and warm. Much of the "shyness" you are perceiving has to do with their great concern about being polite.

Now, once you engage an Asian woman in conversation, that's when you'll want to use certain lines and techniques to build up their attraction and interest in you. I explain how this is done in the "Secrets Of Dating Asian Women" book.

#3 They are excellent homemakers, and take pride in managing the household. A household run by an Asian woman is always going to be clean and organized. The meals will be prepared with care and love.

Even the poorest families keep their living space as clean as possible. In Asia, women will always make sure that your home is clean, and they will take pride in cooking your meals and keeping you well-fed.

#4 They have a rich sense of culture and heritage.

Many Westerners are fascinated by the colorful, exotic, mysterious cultures of Asia, which are steeped in history. In recent times, Asia has gotten a reputation as being rather trendy among Westerners. This is particularly true with Japan, which Westerners have begun to recognize as a Mecca for fashion. (Japanese girls are years ahead of Western girls, with their super-cool, futuristic styles of dress.)

Why else would so many Caucasians, both men and women, put tattoos of Chinese and Japanese characters on their bodies, thinking it makes them look hip and "spiritual" -- even though they've never even visited those countries? (Very lame, if you ask me...)

By dating Asian women, you'll have the opportunity to learn more her fascinating culture -- including its beliefs, traditions, music, cuisine, movies, arts, and history. This isn't the case when you date a woman who grew up in the town next to yours. Being able to constantly learn new things about her culture, while sharing yours with her, can be a big advantage in a relationship. There is less chance of the two of you growing bored with each other. When you date an Asian woman and have genuine appreciation for her culture and background, there are new things for you to explore every day.

#5 Asian women place a high value on relationships and have unconditional love for their family.

It's a fact that Asian women are close to their families and put great importance on their relationships with family members. This extends to their feelings towards the man they date. When you choose the right Asian woman to date or marry, you can expect her to be highly loyal to you. She will not do anything to damage the relationship. Having this type of devoted partner tends to bring out the best in you, as a man.

You may be surprised to learn that the Philippines is one of only two countries on the planet where divorce does not exist! Filipina woman are brought up to believe that marriage is a lifetime commitment, as it's supposed to be. In other Asian countries that do permit divorce, it's still an absolute last resort, and is considered to be terribly shameful. Of course, it's a different story in America -- where the attitude of women is more like, "Let's give it a try, and if I'm bored with you a year from now, I'll leave you and take the house and half your money."

Again, I must remind you that I am speaking in general terms here. Are all Asian women passionately loyal and committed to their relationships? Of course not. There are plenty of warped women and gold diggers out there; you've got to keep your wits about you and know to avoid them. (Which can be difficult when you find yourself dating an Asian girl with the tightest body you've ever laid your hands on!) The "Secrets Of Dating Asian Women" book contains some very helpful tips on this.

#6 We believe the attraction is mutual.

One of the reasons why Western men are interested in dating Asian women is, quite simply, because they've been told that Asian women love Western men! This is certainly true when you are spending time in Asia, but it's still true (to a slightly lesser degree) when you are meeting Asian women in a Western country. The thought of this "mutual interest" is what compels a lot of guys to seek Asian girlfriends.

It's true that if you have light skin and are reasonably fit and attractive, women in Asia will have an "automatic" attraction towards you -- because they have a strong desire to have light-skinned babies. In their culture, light skin is an indicator of status and beauty.

#7 When you date Asian women, interracial stigmas aren't really a problem.

Western society is a lot more tolerant of other races than it was 100, or even 50, years ago. In America, we elected a black President, which would have been unthinkable only a decade ago. But racism does persist in different forms, and there is still some unease in the West when it comes to interracial relationships.

The reality is that a white man marrying a black woman, or a black man marrying a white woman, is still considered unnacceptable by many people, or at the very least it is considered strange. But when Western guys and Asian women date, it is generally quite accepted. In fact, some people say it has become "trendy" in recent years to date Asian women! Now, I'm not saying this is an important reason why you should date Asian women, but it's another positive factor to consider.

Interracial relationships between non-Asian men, and beautiful Asian women, have become very common. And it's silly for some people to think that the differences in your upbringing and culture, and those of an Asian woman, will create difficulties. In fact, these differences can give the relationship an added dimension that keeps things interesting.

(One difference in backgrounds that can create obstacles is if you marry an Asian woman who comes from a very poor family, since you may be expected to provide financial support for her relatives. I talk more about this in the "Secrets Of Dating Asian Women" book.)

#8 Asian women have a spiritual core.

Many Asian women observe a religion and take it seriously. Whether she worships God, Buddha or whomever, religion tends to give Asian women a sense of calmness and inner peace that many Western women lack. Asian women don't need to do constant "soul searching" and fret about what is lacking in their lives. For the Asian woman, a loving partner, a happy, healthy household, and the love of her family and God is enough.

#9 They have a hardworking nature.

Asian women typically start helping out their families from a very young age, waking up early to help out with house-hold chores. This is a dramatic difference from the way children are typically raised in Western countries. Also, they believe in working hard in order to provide a better future for their families.

You see this in immigrant communities throughout the West. Asian immigrants will work nonstop in order to send financial support to their families back in Asia, and to enable family members to come over from Asia to join them. They build their own businesses and are careful with their money. Asian people, in general, respect the importance fo hard work. A woman who is raised this way isn't going to turn into a lazy, spoiled "princess" as soon as you put a ring on her finger!

#10 Asian women take great pride in their appearance.

Even if they're only stepping out to shop for groceries, Asian women always want to look presentable. Going to the salon is a ritual. They feel it's important to stay sexy for their man. This is a far cry from the way many Western women behave once they're married and no longer need to worry about landing a husband. They start packing on the pounds, and would rather wear sweat pants and baggy shirts than the short skirts and tight-fitting jeans that sexy Asian women prefer.

By the way, if you're still wondering why Western women have negative things to say about Western guys who marry Asian women...can you say "jealousy?"

I had to spend a long time figuring out how to attract beautiful Asian women and make them feel that special "chemistry" (otherwise known as attraction). If you want to learn how to master the art of attracting Asian women, all you need to do is read my book "Secrets Of Dating Asian Women." All of these secrets are explained in detail. Learn these lessons, and you can start attracting and dating beautiful Asian women today.