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my thai girlfriend is leaving me, what do i do? i tried talking to her but she wont listen.please help……?

recently me and my girlfriend go into an argument, ring now im in newyork and she is in thailand. i been with her for 3 months straight love her soo much and everyday i was there i enjoyed my time with her, and there was never a dull moment. we always had fun and i took real good care of her and never cheated on her. i been away from thailand for 4 months now. and something has been bothering me, she would stop calling me because of her work but i would always call her after work, she said she would call me back but never did. i one day called her and said some nasty things which i regreat and i didnt mean (actions speak louder than words). then we calmed down and were fine and talked things threw. so one day my friend calls me up and says she caught my girlfriend dancing in a chat room in her underwear and bra, he taped it for me. i called her furious, and ask her why, she said because she said because she was drunk and board. i didnt understand. we started arguing, later on she told me that her friend introduced her to a man on the internet who lives in pennsylvainia and he is in the airforce and he can help her come to america. i was pissed off. i said some bad things to her, and she told me she is going to come to this country and move to florida with him. and that he can bring her here garentee from the airforce. she said she was going to hurt me. which she already did. when i ever i called her way way before we fought she use to just hand up the phone and not say bye. she was also rude. when she started working 2 month ago. she was never like this before. she is not a bar girl she is a college graduate banhelors degree. but she wants to come to america, and i dont want her to come here because its not easy and takes alot of time and mony, i told her she would hate it here and theres barley any thai people in usa. she doesnt believe me. when i was with her i took good care of her, i took her all around thailand, bangkok, phuket, and all around isaan. she was not a bar girl. i bought her anything she wanted paid for her car payments bought her a gold that she sold because i was not send her money to help her with her car, i lost my job. but i will start work again vary soon. but now she is talking to this man. and i heard his voice talking to her from the internet when i called her one day on the phone. now she does not answer my phone and when she does, she says i blah blah blah to much. she is making me hurt so much, i did so much for her. i came all the way to thailand to see her after online dating for 5 months, i gave her grandmother some money to help her, i bought her nephew clothes, and most importantly i treated her with respect and never cheated on her and each day was a good day for 3 months straight. i dont know what happened, im have anexiety attacks and im panicing all the time, trying to call her over and over agian. she cant get off my mind. i did nothing to deserve this. and i miss her and love her so much. i tried everything to call me. please help me, tell me what should i do... i cant just move on. i fell deeply in love with this girl, on my holiday. and im still in love with her and forgive her for what she did and told her, and appologised. help me pleaseee....