My mum favours my brat cousins, i get punished, how do talk to her about it?
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Ok, this is a question so bare with me, This top half is just a background story telling you how they behave and a little about my cousins. but I also really Really REALLY need to vent, sorry this may be bitchy towards them and a tad long so im sorry. The following is not exadurated. If you don’t want to read it all skip down to the QUESTION section.
im 14, girl, half thai half australian, my cousins are spoilt rotten in bangkok (their one is a girl, lets call her jill, shes 22, the others 10, boy, lets call him jack, back in Thailand jill has the equivilent of $2000 AUS dollars in her purse, jack resorts to tantrums, throwing things, swearing, basically his a stupid little s***. Jill is the typical bitch rich girl like the one's in movies. now i have a good body, im not chubby, not skinny, i have hips and boobs, shes super skinny, pale as a thai person can be, size A8 in bra size but all these things aside she is quite attractive. But she always laughs at the way I dress (t-shirts, jeans and runners) not my fault I don’t know douche and kabana , but she’s always saying im fat, looking me up and down, sniggering, giving looks to jack about me, saying im dirty for some reason.. It may not seem big but if you’re a girl, its un-flattering and really doesn’t give you any favor, she’s currently studying at uni in Australia, and I wonder if she behaves this way to people that matter, because shouldn’t you be thinking of making more connections rather that thinking your better then Australians? Their idea of us Australians is the usual (desert, aboriginals, kangaroos, boomerangs and crocodile dun-Dee) the equivalent of hillbillies in America, the stereotype annoys me. But here in Melbourne Victoria were the same as any major city in the world.
Jack: Jack is the biggest brat, like the type you see on super nanny, he clings to your leg in shopping plazas when he wants something, screams, kicks walls, throws pillows when he doesn’t get what he wants, smashes keyboard keys when talking to his parents on msn asking them to buy him a ticket over there to see his friends and go shopping (WTF!) resorts to very, scary violence when seriously pissed off which is often. Eg, throwing knives, meat clubbers, chairs est. Threatened to break expensive things (my Nintendo is already gone) ONSTANTLY puts me down and swears at Thai to me saying im worthless, and when I get pissed the only difference is that he does it from a distance, coz he knows that I have enough balls to hit him and get into trouble with mum. Ha-ha ironic, as I type this his screaming insults in the background, calling Australians worthless and.. Oh.. Yer I just saw his Ipod fly past the door, probably broken… wow that’s an achievement. From what I can translate his angry that his parents wont get him the best kind of game or something (funny thing is, no exadurations what so ever) he’s currently lying on the kitchen tiles howling. Mum says he’s just a kid, be nice to him, when I was 8 I was independently going to Thailand alone to see my family, and I am actually too independent, I wish mum could do some things sometimes haha. All things collective, the things he does gets a quiet shhhh, or a comment about bad behavior and that you shouldn’t be doing that, at most mum raises her voice and he waves it of, no sorry, at best is a phantom phone call to his mum (My mums youngest sister) but she never would.
….Yer I told you I needed to vent, and you have no idea how good it feels… if you think im trying to get sympathy its fine, I just heard some1 say write a letter or something, so even better there’s this thing I can do called ask a question on yahoo answers.
QUESTION……So anyway, my question: my birthday was last week, I had a BBQ party. The biggest opportunity has risen in my life, im going to America Hollywood for acting these holidays and its just the greatest moment in my life I cant express that enough. For my birthday party my friends all gave me money to spend over there and I had a lot, no more that 100 dollars though. Lets reverse acouple of nights ago, i had money, $245 to be exact, Jack was watching TV beside me, i counted behind the couch, then sat back down with the box on the table, mum came and asked me to wash the dishes so i did. when i was going to bed i counted it in the tv room one more time, this time it was $225... i thought "oh i must have counted wrong, so i accepted it, about 3% of me thought was it jack?...nahh"
the next day mum took my shopping for clothes to take 2 USA, i was so happy because ill finally look feminine and pretty, plus i dont remember a time mum bought me somthing because i wanted it or bcause i didnt need it. but she gave him $5, he whined it wasnt enough so she gave him another $5 = $10, he goes shopping, later that night he shows off what he bought, laying them on a table and quickly glancing means look what your mum bought me, which did